Cast your mind back. It's 2003. You have a polyphonic ringtone on your Nokia 3310. You wear bandanas and own a hair crimper. Your eyebrows have been plucked to oblivion, you log onto MySpace and the song of the moment is 'Jenny From The Block' where Jennifer Lopez sings about still being the same woman she's always been despite her 'rocks', riches, fame and A-lister boyfriend Ben Affleck, who frolicks with her on a yacht in the unforgettable music video.

Affleck and Lopez, or 'Bennifer' as they were dubbed by the press (though in the past few years filmmaker Kevin Smith has claimed he is responsible for its origin), were tabloid favourites. Despite their widely-panned rom com film Gigli at the time, their undeniable chemistry, red carpet gazes of adoration, and one heck of an engagement ring seriously captured the attention and hearts of the public and the media.

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Almost two years after Lopez called off her engagement and parted ways with fiancé of three years and partner of two years, Alex Rodriguez, Affleck and Lopez's relationship has gone from strength to strength. So much so that the couple are now married and just affirmed their love with the cutest PDA at the ELLE Women in Hollywood awards in Los Angeles.

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They were previously set to wed in the Noughties, after Affleck proposed in 2002, but their nuptials were called off, which they put down to public scrutiny.

Affleck proposed to Lopez the second time round with an emerald engagement ring strikingly similar to the one he presented her with almost two decades ago.

Later, in July of the same year, we really did travel back in time when photos of Lopez and Affleck looking very happy and in love aboard a super yacht landed. Lopez even shared a photo of herself kissing her new old love, confirming the rumours and reports with just one photo.

Here's everything we know about the couple...

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Are Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck married?

Yes, they're officially married.

In July 2022, Lopez and Affleck tied the knot in an intimate Las Vegas ceremony. 'It was super, super small. They just wanted to be married so they got married,' an insider told People.

In an interview on Good Morning America that aired in July 2022, A Little White Wedding Chapel employee Kenosha Booth Portis, who was working during the couple's nuptials, recalled the pair 'reading each other's vows, they were very sweet'.

She added: 'It was beautiful. It wasn't overly emotional, but some tears were shed by them both. Jennifer looked stunning.'

Ahead of their first Christmas together, Entertainment Tonight reports that a source told the outlet that the couple have purchased multiple meaningful gifts for each other and are planning on throwing a very special Christmas for their blended family.

A source told the publication: 'Jen's favourite holiday is Christmas, so she always goes all out, but this is a really exciting time for them as a couple since it's their first Christmas as husband and wife. Ben and Jen picked out and decorated a huge tree with the help of their children. Their home feels festive and looks gorgeous with decorations and everything lit up.”

'[She] wants this year to be even more special than usual and to make new traditions of their own, both as a family and with Ben.'

What have Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck said about each other since getting married?

In May 2023, Lopez shared that her love story with Affleck would shape her new album This Is Me... Now, which isdue for release in the summer.

She added it's her most inspired music since the release of her 2002 LP, This Is Me... Then, dropped.

Speaking to Kelly Ripa and Mark Consuelos on a May 5 2023 episode of Live With Kelly & Mark, Lopez shared: 'I haven't really made an album like this in 20 years, is the truth. The last time when I did, This Is Me… Then, is the last time I remember doing an album like this, where I was in the studio every single day writing every single song, doing every single thing.'

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Lopez explained that the albums reflected a different quality of her relationship with Affleck. She added: 'I was very inspired at that time when I wrote This Is Me… Then. Anybody who knows about that album [knows] it really was about me falling in love at that time with the love of my life, and now, 20 years later, who would've ever thought we would've [gotten back together]?'

Lopez and Affleck have five children between them, and Lopez previously gushed about how her husband is as a father during a May 4, 2023 appearance on The View.

The Marry Me star said watching Affleck raise their children 'brings tears to my eyes'.

She said: 'He's an amazing dad. It brings tears to my eyes. He is honestly the best dad I've ever seen. He's so involved, he teaches me about how to interact with the kids sometimes.'

Lopez added: 'He's just so in tune, he's such a brilliant guy anyway, like he's so learned in so many things, and you can just tell when he's had his kids, he read every book and everything you could possibly learn about children, and he applies it and is present and that's all you can ask for, is a present, loving dad who cares and who shows up every single day, and that's who he is.'

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While discussing Affleck as a father, she also explained the difficulty of parenting teenagers, saying: 'I'm experiencing this now, we all experience it for the first time with our own kids, and you're just like "Oh, this is what she was talking about."'

'This is the time where your kids don't want to talk to you, and they kind of individuating from you, and it's all necessary, and intellectually I understand it. But my heart! My heart!'

Affleck has rarely spoken publicly about Lopez since the pair married in the summer of 2022, but during the premiere of his film Air at the Regency Village Theatre in LA in March 2023, he, too, couldn’t help but gush about the star.

Speaking of the Shotgun Wedding actor, he sweetly said: ‘This has been a joy, and I want to just enjoy this moment for one second.

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‘And I want to say that none of it would be possible — this company, this movie, this joy tonight — without the love and support of my wife who means more to me than anything in the world. I want to say thank you. I love you. You mean the world to me. You’re fabulous, you’re amazing, you’re wonderful, good, kind, magnificent and I love you.’

Lopez joined her husband for the glitzy occasion dressed in a dazzling citrus couture gown by Antonio Grimaldi, like something from a modern fairy tale.

Jennifer Lopez previously spoke about the past year with new husband Ben Affleck during an interview on Today to promote Shotgun Wedding.

The singer discussed the 'emotional transition' of the past year, which saw her marry Ben Affleck in July 2022. 'We moved in together, the kids moved in together, so it's been like a really kind of emotional transition,' she told Today. 'But at the same time… all your dreams coming true, it's just been a phenomenal year.'

Lopez went on to reflect on 2022, saying that it had been her 'best year, I think, since my kids were born.' The star recently posted a 'highlights reel' of 2022 to her Instagram, which she said 'was one of the best years yet' and included never-before-seen clips and photos from hers and Affleck's two weddings – an intimate ceremony in Las Vegas in July, and a bigger celebration a month later in Georgia, for which Lopez wore three custom Ralph Lauren gowns.

During an interview with Apple Music 1 on November 28, 2022, 'On the Floor' singer Lopez opened up about the message behind her upcoming album This Is Me...Now - a follow-up to her 2002 release This Is Me...Then.

While advising fans to not give up on love, she said: 'We captured me at this moment in time when I was reunited with the love of my life and we decided we were going to be together forever.

'The whole message of the album [This Is Me...Then] is, "This love exists. This is a real love."'

Lopez continued: 'Now I think what the message of [This Is Me...Now] is — if you have, like me at times, lost hope, almost given up, don't. True love does exist and some things do last forever and that's real. I want to put that message out into the world and that does take a lot of vulnerability.'

Reflecting on her 2022 single 'Dear Ben', Lopez added: 'Every single song we wrote, me writing 'Dear Ben,' it was such a special moment in time to have captured.'

However, the pair's 'painful' split made it difficult for the singer to sing the songs about her then ex in the years that followed. 'I wouldn't even perform these records. It was so painful after we broke up,' she recalled. 'Once we called off that wedding 20 years ago, it was the biggest heartbreak of my life, and I honestly felt like I was going to die.'

Lopez continued, noting that while she went on to release several albums, their break-up made her 'spiral' creatively. 'I didn't make music in that way that I did in 2002 until now... It set me on a spiral for the next 18 years where I just couldn't get it right. But now, 20 years later, it does have a happy ending. It has the most, would never happen in Hollywood ending.'

Elsewhere in the interview, she revealed the special message Affleck had engraved on her second engagement ring: 'Not. Going. Anywhere.'

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Lopez explained: 'That's how he would sign his emails when we started talking again. Like, "Don't worry, I'm not going anywhere."'

Opening up about her married name, Lopez told Vogue earlier in November 2022: 'People are still going to call me Jennifer Lopez. But my legal name will be Mrs. Affleck because we’re joined together. We’re husband and wife. I’m proud of that. I don’t think that’s a problem.'

On the possibility of Affleck taking her name, she added: 'If you want to know how I feel about [taking his last name], I just feel like it’s romantic. It still carries tradition and romance to me, and maybe I’m just that kind of girl.'

Have Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck bought a new home together?

In August 2022, following their honeymoon, a source told TMZ the newlyweds had packed in their house hunt and instead were planning to move into Lopez's current home. The singer has owned the property since 2016.

The report come after the pair were spotted house hunting in LA earlier this year. But, despite reportedly ending their real estate search, the newlyweds are understood to be leasing businessman James Packer's £49 million ($60 million) mansion while Lopez's home is renovated, which will take at least a year.

In March 2022, it was reported that Lopez and Affleck had already bought a £37.8 million ($50 million) mansion together. According to Dirt, the Bel-Air home spanned 20,000 square foot and was complete with a theatre, four kitchens, an infinity pool, 17 bathrooms, a wine cellar, a wood-panelled office, dual showroom-style closets, and a marble bath. And their supposed property was understood to boast both casual and formal dining rooms too.

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Lopez and Affleck were believed to have got the deal due to the home first being listed for £49.2 million ($65 million) by Texas Billionaire and hedge fund manager Todd Lemkin.

A source previously revealed to US Weekly that the couple could had been house hunting since last summer. 'Ben and Jen are spending almost every night together when they’re not working…they plan on moving in together very soon,' the source said.

'As far as Jen sees it, she and Ben have their whole lives now to set things up in a comfortable way. She intends to be an involved stepmum who’s there for Ben in that area, plus she’ll want him to make the same effort with her and Marc’s kids.'

TMZ's report indicated that 'the entire brood from both sides would be living' in the couple's home'.

What have Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck been up to since their honeymoon?

On November 25, 2022, the loved-up pair was spotted leaving Hugh Jackman-led production of The Music Man on Broadway together in New York.

Upon leaving the theatre, Affleck was photographed taking Lopez's hand and sweetly wrapping his arm around her.

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The sweet display of affection came after they celebrated their first Thanksgiving together as a married couple.

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At the time, Lopez styled a sheer high-slit skirt with a Fair Isle knit and platform heels. She wore her hair down and opted for rosy eyeshadow and a similar lip colour. Affleck, meanwhile, wore sleek black trousers with a white T-shirt, zipped cardigan and long black coat.

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As for their first Valentine's Day together as a married couple, J-Lo and Ben Affleck went all out for the occasion by getting matching tattoos as a sign of their commitment to one another.

Lopez shared photos of the couples' new ink on Instagram, with the caption 'Commitment ♾️ Happy Valentine’s Day my love 🤍 (Look for more deets on VDay coming #OnTheJLo soon…) #CommitmentIsSexy #ThisIsUsThen #ThisIsUsNow #ThisIsMeNow.'

The photos showed Lopez with a new tattoo on her ribs, featuring an infinity symbol with an arrow through it, and hers and Ben's names incorporated too. Affleck's tattoo, meanwhile, consists of two interlinked arrows plus a 'J' and a 'B'.

Lopez's Valentine's Day post also featured sweet photos of the couple over the years, including holiday snaps and a kissing photo that throws it all the way back to 2003's 'Bennifer 1.0'.

Did Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck make red carpet appearances together leading up to getting married?

In February 2022 Affleck supported Lopez at the Los Angeles premiere of her film Marry Me. The singer wore a white lace Giambattista Valli mini dress with Jimmy Choo heels, while her beau wore a black suit and couldn't keep his hands off her.

They seemed to have been spending a lot of time together throughout September 2021. Though the couple dodged the Met Gala's famous steps, they sneakily reunited inside the fashionable event.

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Posing with their masks on, during the Covid-19 pandemic, Lopez wore a Ralph Lauren ensemble, including a faux fur coat and slit-front gown.

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck made their first red carpet appearance on September 10, 2021. The official couple attended the red carpet of Affleck's film 'The Last Duel' at The Venice Film Festival and put on a loved-up show for all to see.

With him in a Dolce & Gabbana tux and her in a couture Georges Hobeika bridal white gown plus Cartier jewellery, the couple laughed, kissed and beamed their way through the exciting debut.

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The pair arrived by boat at the Venice Film Festival the day before. Lopez looked like the epitome of Italian summer chic as she arrived at the festival - aided by beau Affleck as she embarked onto the boat - wearing a white lace pussybow shirt midi dress, monochrome-rimmed Prada sunglasses and a Hermes Birkin bag.

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After walking hand in hand to the boat, the reunited couple were photographed smiling, laughing and generally gazing into each others while sailing through the canals of Venice. Dreamy.

It was after spending months dropping hints by way of Hamptons beach walks, dodging interview questions, and attending family events together (read on for more), that Lopez marked her 52nd birthday, in July 2021, with a photograph of her kissing Affleck.

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In a montage of photos of Lopez celebrating her birthday aboard a luxury super yacht in the south of France, wearing a Valentino bikini and sun hat, the final picture in the franchise showed Affleck and Lopez in a tight clinch, kissing. Naturally, the montage was 'liked' almost eight million times in the hours following its posting, as fans rejoiced at the confirmation of rumours of a rekindled relationship.

Paparazzi pictures also emerged of the couple on the yacht and we were getting very strong flashbacks of the aforementioned 'Jenny From The Block' video which Affleck starred in, on a yacht, with his bikini-clad girlfriend. Later that day, photos were released on social media of Lopez and Affleck continuing the birthday celebrations at a restaurant in St Tropez, where they were seen sat next to each other dancing along and taking photos.

A few weeks later on August 15, 2021 Lopez and her daughter Emme attended a celebrity shopping event where the singer reportedly picked out gifts for Affleck's daughters Seraphina and Violet as well as one for Emme. According to People, Lopez picked out a selection of 'birth flower' necklaces which included two corresponding with Affleck's daughters. The outing occurred the same weekend that Lopez reportedly wiped her ex-fiancé Rodriguez from her Instagram account.

Before confirmation of a relationship, on July 23, 2021, Lopez's longtime good friend Leah Remini shared pictures from her birthday party, which she'd made into a collage full of photos from the event. While watching this, in a blink-and-you'll-miss-it moment, a black and white Kardashian-style photobooth picture emerged of Remini and Lopez joined by Affleck too.

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In the snap, Affleck was in the middle with his arms around the two friends, while Lopez places her hand on his chest. The photo marked the first time we'd seen the couple together like this on Instagram and also showed that Affleck had been invited along as Lopez's dates to important events in her personal life.

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Bennifer was first spotted together at the end of April 2021, when Page Six claimed that the Argo actor and director had been seen arriving at Lopez's LA home, alleging Affleck had visited the star three times since she arrived back in the US after her stint in the Dominican Republic shooting her upcoming film, Shotgun Wedding. They had also both appeared, albeit separately, at the Global Citizen 'Vax Live' charity event, co-chaired by the Duke and Duchess of Sussex on May 9.

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A day after the event, the Mail Online published the first pictures of Lopez and Affleck together in seven years. The photographs reportedly showed the two actors arriving back in Los Angeles after spending the weekend together in Montana (where photographs of them driving were also obtained). According to E! News, the duo spent a week holidaying in Affleck's chalet in the US state. The entertainment outlet cited 'multiple sources' suggesting that the pair's friendship has turned up a notch. 'Ben reached out to her to see how she was doing and they had dinner together a few times within this last month. It's natural between them and the chemistry is unreal. They picked up where they last left off and are enjoying each other's company right now,' one source reportedly said.

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On May 31, 2021 Page Six published photos of Lopez and Affleck heading to dinner at celebrity chef Wolfgang Puck's new restaurant in Los Angeles. Affleck was photographed with his arm around his former fiancé, who was seen nestled into his shoulder while also wrapping her arm around him. According to the outlet, Lopez and Affleck then held hands as they made their way into the restaurant.

Are there memes and tweets about Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck meeting up again?

Bennifer's romance has been a topic of heavy conversation since they first reunited, and in November 2022, the couple continued to be at the centre of a series of memes and tweets after appearing in their first TikTok video together.

On Sunday, November 20, 2022 Lopez shared an adorable clip of her snuggled up with Affleck on a private plane.

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The singer/actor's video formed part of a viral trend, which features Pink's popular 2012 song 'Try' playing in the background. A child's voice could then be heard saying: 'Guys I did it. I found the person that makes me the happiest I have ever been.'

Bennifer smiled into the camera, as Lopez wrapped one arm around her husband.

At the time, the pair were dressed casually, with Lopez in a white T-shirt and Affleck in a grey knit.

Since Lopez shared the post, fans have taken to social media to comment on the couple's union.

'She really wants to eat him,' wrote one person.

'Tell me you are happy without telling me you are happy,' gushed another. A third wrote: 'Omg good morning to me that [sic].'

Prior to this, a flurry of memes and tweets surfaced in May 2021 when rumours of a Bennifer reunion first started, and following Lopez's kissing-in-St-Tropez photo too:

While it might have felt like we'd been thrown back to the early Noughties, there were clear indicators that time has progressed. Namely, the advance of the internet and social media, and therefore internet reactions when the rumours first surfaced:

In July, 2021, Lopez was also spotted having 'liked' a throwback photo of Affleck on Instagram. A photo of the actor from the set of his 2010 film The Town, shared on the fan account @lopezaffleck, saw the Oscar winner wearing a T-shirt emblazoned with the phrase 'Believe in Boston'. Lopez was among almost 3,000 fans who 'liked' the snap, which hadn't gone unnoticed by Bennifer's fan club.

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'Jenn liked this omg omg omg, [sic]' commented one fan on the post. 'Jennifer liked [sic],' another added.

The 'liked' post came a week after the pair spent the Fourth of July weekend together in the Hamptons.

How long were Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck together, why did they break up?

The couple dated from 2002 to 2004 and became engaged in 2002.

But in 2003, their wedding was postponed days before it was scheduled to happen, with the couple confirming their break up in January 2004.

Revisiting a People magazine article from 2003, shortly before their nuptials were due to take place, a statement from the couple said the reason for postponing their Santa Barbara wedding was down to the intense media speculation they were subject to.

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'Due to the excessive media attention surrounding our wedding, we have decided to postpone the date,' the statement read. 'When we found ourselves seriously contemplating hiring three separate "decoy brides" at three different locations, we realised that something was awry. We began to feel that the spirit of what should have been the happiest day of our lives could be compromised. We felt what should have been a joyful and sacred day could be spoiled for us, our families and our friends.'

In December 2021, Affleck candidly revealed what impacted their break-up while speaking on The Howard Stern Show. The Gone Girl actor highlighted his own mistakes and media pressure as factors.

According to Entertainment Tonight he said on the show: 'I got f*cking hurt and angry, and felt like a fool. I would say [media attention] was about 50 per cent [of what destroyed our relationship]. The idea that people hate you and they hate you together and that being together is poison and ugly and toxic and the thing none of us want to be part of.

'And, "Who the f*ck would want to have them to dinner?" And, "What the f*ck are they doing together?"'

In 2010, while appearing on the Graham Norton Show, Lopez reflected on the immense pressures the media scrutiny put on their relationship.

'It was a lot. Honestly, I've never really talked about it before,' she said.

'I love Ben, he's a great guy but it was a lot for both of us to be under that type of siege for two years straight. We were on the cover of every magazine every week, it was just a weird thing. The media catches on to certain things and that just happened to be one of things and our relationship, I think, did suffer because of that. That wasn't the only thing.. but it definitely played a part in the dynamic of our relationship.'

What did Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck say about each other before getting married?

A trailer for Lopez's Netflix documentary Halftime was released on Wednesday May 18, showing her bursting into tears and feeling to end her Hollywood career after not being included on the 2020 Oscars nominations list.

The clip also showed Affleck addressing the scrutiny Lopez has faced under the spotlight.

In the video, Lopez was contemplating the possibility of being included on the nominations list but later disappointed to learn that she hadn't been. She later said: 'It was hard,' adding: 'I just had a very low self esteem.'

While working out in the gym, she admitted: 'I had to really figure out who I was and believe in that and not believe in anything else.'

The Marry Me star also explained in the clip that rather than work hard to get awards, she does so to allow her fans to connect with her.

The video cut to tabloid covers being flashed on the screen claiming that she is tough, before showing Billy Bush asking about the size of her bum, to which she responded: 'You did not just ask me that?'

Jimmy Kimmel was shown on his late night show claiming Lopez can't sing.

'I've lived in the public eye and I really believed a lot of what they said,' she said in the clip, before a man is heard referring to her as a "diva" and "serial bride".'

Elsewhere in the clip, Affleck was shown having a sit down interview for Halftime, revealing that he asked Lopez how she deals with bad publicity, trolls and those who misjudge her.

Oscar-winning Affleck said: 'I asked her, doesn't this bother you?'

He added that she responded: 'I expected this.'

The actress and singer went on to say: 'I am trying to give you something of substance not just us out there shaking our f**king asses. I want something real. My whole life I have been battling to be heard, to be seen, to be taken seriously.'

Both of the Jersey Girl stars have only had good words to say about each other since their early Noughties split. After Affleck won a Golden Globe (and later an Oscar) for Argo in 2013, Lopez appeared on The Ellen Show where she congratulated her ex.

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'They were really hard on us in the press when we dated back in the day and on movies and things like that so it was a nice moment, it was nice to see him have that moment. I was really happy for him,' she said.

Affleck also continued to praise Lopez, joining the outrage when the actor was left out of the Oscar nominations after her critically-acclaimed performance in 2019's Hustlers.

'She's the real thing. I keep in touch periodically with her and have a lot of respect for her. How awesome is it that she had her biggest hit movie at 50? That's f***ing baller,' he told the New York Times.

He previously criticised the way Lopez was written about when they dated, telling the Hollywood Reporter's Awards Chatter podcast: 'People were so f***ing mean about her — sexist, racist. Ugly, vicious sh*t was written about her in ways that if you wrote it now you would literally be fired for saying those things you said. Now it’s like, she’s lionised and respected for the work she did, where she came from, what she accomplished — as well she f***ing should be!

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'I would say you have a better shot, coming from the Bronx, of ending up as like [Justice Sonia] Sotomayor on the Supreme Court than you do of having Jennifer Lopez’s career and being who she is at 50-years-old today.'

In an interview with People for the news outlet's February 2022 issue, Lopez opened up about her newfound romance with Affleck.

She said: 'I just feel very happy and lucky to be in a relationship that's happy and loving, and I want to do everything I can to protect that and keep it safe. It deserves that, it really does. ... We hold it sacred.'

Comparing her relationship now to how it was when they first started dating two decades ago, she gushed: 'It's beautiful the way it feels very different than it was years ago. ... There's more of an appreciation and a celebration for it, which is nice.'

'When you find somebody and you really, really love them and you get a second chance at that? That is a really rare, precious, beautiful thing and we don't take it for granted.'

She went on to speak sweetly about Affleck, saying: 'I'm so proud of the him, I'm so proud of the man he's become that I've watched from afar.'

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She continued: 'To see the person, the human being, the man that he is today, the father that he is today, the partner that he is — he is so everything I always knew he was and wanted to be.'

The mother-of-two, who referred to real-life fairy tales as 'a tricky thing', also spoke about how she can use her revived romance with Affleck to educate her kids.

'What I can teach my children is that real love exists.

'Some things can be forever, but it doesn't mean they just have a straight line,' she said.

As for the future, she said: 'I just want my future to be full of love and happiness, with my children and my partner. I think everybody just wants to be happy, with somebody to go on the journey with and grow old with, and I feel good about that right now,' she said.

Prior to that, seven months after the pair hit headlines amid rumours they were dating, Affleck opened up about his partner in a rare interview with the WSJ.

Discussing the story of the pair's recoupling, he told the publication: 'I can say that it’s definitely beautiful to me. And, you know, one of the things I really value across all facets of my life now is that it was handled in a way that reflected that.'

'And it is a good story. It’s a great story. And, you know, maybe one day I’ll tell it. I’ll write it all out. [Pauses] And then I’ll light it on fire. [Laughs]'

Right, we're not quite sure what he's lighting on fire here, but we're getting all sorts of feels.

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The actor also discussed how fortunate he is to have been give second chances in life. 'I am very lucky in my life in that I have benefited from second chances, and I am aware that other people don’t even get first chances,' he noted.

'Life is difficult, and we are always failing and hopefully learning from those failures. The one thing you really need to avail yourself of the opportunities provided from that growth is the second chance. I’ve definitely tried to take advantage of that. I haven’t always been successful, but in cases in which I have, they’ve turned out to be the defining aspects of my life.'

Lopez previously appeared on stage in Central Park for the Global Citizen Live concert, attended by Meghan Markle and Prince Harry, in September 2021.

During her set Lopez was heard telling the crowd: 'We can do anything with love. Love makes miracles, trust me. I guess you could say, I don't know, I got love on the brain. Have love on my mind lately, I don't know what it is.'

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The singer donned a green plaid ensemble of a seafoam green coat over a fern green dress with a waist tie during the walk in Madison Square Park.

In a rare joint interview after Lopez was named Adweek's 2021 Brand Visionary on September 20, 2022, Affleck told the magazine how much admiration he had for Lopez and what she's achieved as a woman of colour working in the business world.

'I am in awe of what Jennifer’s effect on the world is. At most, as an artist, I can make movies that move people. Jennifer has inspired a massive group of people to feel they have a seat at the table in this country.

'That is an effect few people throughout history have had, one I will never know and one I can only stand by and admire with respect.'

Lopez joined Lin Manuel Miranda for an interview with Hoda Kotb for the Today show on July 20th, to discuss their re-released charity single 'Love Makes The World Go Round', when Kotb pivoted to ask Lopez if she was happy because, 'you look happier, every time I see a photo of you and Ben, I'm like "she looks happier". Are we happier?'

Pausing, Lopez collected her thoughts and words before expertly bringing the attention back to the charity single: 'The song is out five years since we've done it and I believe that the message of loving one another and being together is never more relevant than it is right now.'

While Miranda squealed with delight at having witnessed an expert celebrity question dodge, Kotb pleaded: 'It's me you're talking to!' to which Lopez replied, 'I know, you can call me, you have my number.'

Who were Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck with before they rekindled their romance?

Both Lopez and Affleck moved on after their break up, with Affleck finding love with Garner, and years later with de Armas.

Gone Girl star Affleck experienced his split split from his former wife of 10 years and the mother of his three children, Jennifer Garner, in 2018 and ended his romance with actor Ana De Armas in 2021.

Lopez also, who married her ex-husband Marc Anthony in the summer of 2004 before they separated in 2014, share twins Emme and Max together.

Lopez was later in a relationship with Rodriguez prior to rekindling her romance with Affleck. They reportedly broke off their engagement after two years together, and a source told People: 'This has been a long time coming.'

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